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I Know A Good Dad When I See One

Smart GadgetsBy Smart Gadgets2024-03-27Updated:2025-01-234 Mins Read
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A strong father figure plays a key role in raising healthy children

I’m grateful that my daughter has such an amazing role model, and not just because that bond between them is such a beautiful thing to witness. Even science has a whole lot to say about the importance of dads taking an active role in raising their kids. Take a look at a few examples below.

  • A 2016 University of Guelph study found that parents- fathers especially- play a major role in our kids’ future health as young adults.
  • A 2011 University of Arizona discovered that a good father-daughter relationship reduced the incidence of “risky sexual behaviors” in girls.
  • From the “strange but true” files, 1999 Vanderbilt University study discovered that a girl’s relationship with her dad has influence on when she’ll enter puberty!
  • Dads even influence their daughter’s interest in math, according to a 2007 University of Michigan study.

With all of that in mind, let’s talk about some things dads can do to keep that father/daughter bond going strong.

Fathers, be your daughter’s first love and she’ll never settle for anything less. – Unknown

How to strengthen your father/daughter bond

The best way to really deepen that father/daughter bond is to simply spend time together. It sounds easy, right? That said, here are a few other tips to strengthen your bond.

Show up for her

Whether it’s cheering her on at her gymnastics meet or listening to her when she’s had a rough day, be there for her when she needs you. If you can’t physically “show up,” then let her know you’re thinking of her. For example, if you have an out-of-town meeting that you can’t reschedule the same day she has a big event, set up a Skype of Face-time call in the morning. Go the extra mile and wear a big sign that says, “Go Sally!” Be silly! Be bold! Just be there however you can!

A father holds his daughter’s hand for a short while, but he holds her heart forever.

Share mutual interests

Sure, it’s great to show up for your daughter and cheer her on at her spelling bee or read her bedtime stories that she picks out. However, those are things that SHE loves. You do them because you love her and want to support her, but let’s be honest, you’re not all that jazzed about reading “Goodnight Moon” for the umpteenth time.

So, it’s also important to find things that you both enjoy. Not only will she get to experience the world from your point of view, but you’ll develop a whole new bond that lasts a lifetime and build longer lasting memories.

Respect her mom

Part of a dad’s job is to teach his daughter how she should be treated by future men in her life. It’s not enough to just tell her what she deserves, but also to show her. Treat her mother with respect and kindness. Yes, even if you’re divorced and don’t particularly get along with her mom. In fact, especially if that’s the case, because it will show her that even if her future relationships don’t work out, she still deserves proper respect.

A daughter needs a dad to be the standard against which she will judge all men. – Unknown

Respect her boundaries

This one is for all those dads of teen daughters out there! I know it’s tempting to wrap your daughter up in your great big bear arms and growl at anyone who comes near her but resist the urge. Don’t be that dad that threatens every guy she ever brings home. Trust me, she’ll stop bringing them home! That’s the last thing you want.

Instead, show genuine interest in her dates. Talk to them like human beings. First, this guy could be your future son-in-law and you want to start the relationship off right. Second, if he does turn out to be a less-than-stellar guy, you’ll see the signs better if you just “play it cool” and actually interact with him. Plus, if that happens, she’ll need you more than ever. So please, respect her boundaries. Either way, you’ll be grateful you did later.

Honestly, though, being a good father-figure is just about being a good father, period. Be there, love her, spend time with her. The rest will fall into place.

A little final note, “fathers” come in all shapes and sizes. So, all of this applies whether you’re a biological dad, adoptive father, stepdad, or even a grandfather or uncle stepping into the role as father figure.

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