10 Ways Must-Knows to Flirt with a Guy Over Text
Do you want to know how to flirt with a guy over text, subtly or not, and keep him hooked and enamored? These 40 tips will take your flirty texting to the next level!
1. Text him first but less often than him
Everyone says it’s okay to text a guy first and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. BUT, here’s what you need to remember – You already like that guy!
So chances are, your fingers are itching to text that guy every minute. You will never be in a calculating state to realize how often you text him first.
So what’s the next best thing? Waiting for your message. You can still text him first, but it shouldn’t happen more than a few times a week, at least until you know he likes you too.
2. Use Memes to stay connected
So if you’re texting a guy, chances are you’re also following each other on Instagram and other social networks. Send him a meme every once in a while to stay connected.
If you think there’s something funny, share the meme in the DMs. This is a great way to scratch your itch when he hasn’t texted you for a day and you want to text him again.
Memes are so casual and they’re a great way to get a guy to text you back.
3. Use Stories
You can also use your Instagram stories to continue the conversation. A guy might not want to comment on every one of your posts because he’ll look creepy unless he’s dating you.
But if it’s an Insta story then it’s a completely different game.
No one else can see the interaction but the two of you, so this is a safe place for him to continue the conversation and comments without anyone else watching.
4. Let him know who you are
Be unique, but be yourself. You don’t have to change your texting style to please a guy. If you usually do something while texting, keep doing it.
If your definition of “over” when you end a text conversation is the face blowing heart emoji, use it. Be yourself and never change for anyone but yourself.
5. Always ask open-ended questions
If you want to flirt with a guy over text and keep the conversation going, ask open-ended questions. If he asks what you’re doing, don’t just answer and leave it at that. Ask him again WYD.
Girls who don’t ask open-ended questions when responding to texts can make any guy feel bored.
6. Give him a chance to flirt with you
Share a cute selfie of yourself trying on outfits while shopping. Ask for his opinion. If the outfit looks good, he will most likely compliment you for it.
It’s all about subtlety. Give him a chance to flirt over text, and any guy will take it!
7. Be fun and dramatic in your messages now!
“You won’t believe what happened today!” or “I like that movie you recommended, it’s great!” are good conversation starters without having to start with “hello” or hello.
Sometimes, especially when you two have bonded over text, you can suddenly text a guy and make a statement that makes him smile and think of you.
8. Tell him you miss him
When you tell a guy that you remember him, it’s a huge compliment and ego boost for him. He will immediately feel warmer towards you and also spend a lot of time thinking about you.
“I just remembered what you did last week and wanted to say it was funny/silly/hilarious,” “I came across your favorite candy while shopping this morning!” or something similar will make him try harder to please you and get your attention.
9. Use emojis
Emojis are fun, emojis are flirty and they keep things light and fun. Whoever said you shouldn’t use emojis because you look childish was probably a bit too uptight.
Everyone uses emojis when texting someone they’re close to, and if they didn’t, emojis wouldn’t be so popular anymore!
10. Make him fantasize about you when he texts you
Walked out of the bathroom right when you texted him? Include that little detail in the text. Are you ready to sleep after changing into your pajamas? Of course, make sure you let him know nonchalantly and carelessly!
What you need to remember to make a guy like you over text is to make him think of you. And guys are visual creatures. If you tell him you just took a shower, he will accidentally think of you taking a shower!