“Someone who really loves you sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, how hard you are to handle but still wants you in their life.”
Is it true that love is not what you say, but what you do? Men and women show their affection differently. Most women admit by saying “I love you” to their man, but men seem to be silent on this. Men prefer to express their love through actions. You might think your man is not romantic, but in the real sense, you are everything in his world. I have come up with ways that you can know that your man is in love with you even though he doesn’t say it out loud.
When someone loves you, they shouldn’t be acting as if it’s a burden to be spending time with you. They shouldn’t be making it seem like they’re merely fulfilling a duty by being with you. They shouldn’t be annoyed with having to reply to your text messages in the middle of a busy work day. They shouldn’t make you feel like you are annoying them with your presence in their life. When someone really loves you, they don’t have to tell you that they love you; they show you they love you by treating you the way that you deserve to be treated.
When someone loves you, they would always make an effort to really plan things out in the relationship. They wouldn’t just be waiting on you before they act. They would always take a proactive role in making sure that your relationship is consistently growing and getting stronger. They would never be shy about initiating the first text; they would never be shy about kissing you and hugging you. When someone is truly in love with you, they wouldn’t be afraid of letting their feelings be known to you. They would do whatever it takes to make you trust them; and that includes becoming completely open and vulnerable to you.
When someone loves you, they are always going to make a conscious effort to never make you feel excluded. They would never do anything to make it seem like you are a mere spectator to their life. They wouldn’t be making decisions without consulting you. When someone loves you, they would always want to include you in the planning and decision-making process. They would always want to hear your take on things. They would always want to find out about what you think.
When someone loves you, they greatly value your opinion because they trust you more than anyone else on this planet. When someone loves you, you wouldn’t ever have to worry about waking up one day and realizing that they feel something different about you. You are always going to get a sense of security and stability with them because they make sure that you feel that.
When someone loves you, they would never keep score of how many times they would do favors or run errands for you. They would always do whatever it takes to make your life as easy and as comfortable as possible. They wouldn’t complain about being of service to you because they would consider it their pleasure. It would bring so much happiness into their life to know that they are able to make you happy. They are always going to take pride in being able to bring a smile to your face. They are always going to be willing to do whatever it takes to be a light of joy in your life.
When someone loves you, they are never going to do anything that will feed into your insecurities. They are never going to do or say anything that will make you feel like you are less of a human being. In fact, they are going to do the total opposite. They are going to always lift you up. They are going to give you the confidence and encouragement that you need to believe in yourself. They are going to give you the bravery that you need to go after the things that you most want in this life.
They are going to give you the motivation that you need to make a name for yourself. When someone loves you, they are going to believe in you even when you don’t believe in yourself. When someone loves you, they are always going to do whatever it takes to make sure you feel wanted, valued, and appreciated. They are always going to make sure that you don’t feel like you don’t matter to them.
When someone loves you, they don’t really have to tell you that they love you in order for you to feel that love. It’s going to be evident in all of the ways that they treat you. It’s going to be obvious in all of the ways that they act when they’re around you.
When someone is genuinely in love with you, there is going to be very little doubt of that person’s love. You won’t find yourself questioning that love all too often. In fact, you’re probably never going to find yourself questioning that love at all. When someone is in love with you, you are always going to feel a sense of safety and security with this person. You are always going to feel like you’re at home whenever you’re with his person. When someone loves you, they give you the confidence to believe that you can genuinely spend the rest of your lives together.