Tips for Perfect French Kiss In Just 10 Easy Techniques…
You’ve seen it done in the movies and probably even in public—the French kiss, a timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection, aka “kissing with tongue.” This kiss can be very stimulating and erotic since the tongue, and the lips are very sensitive to touch. Therefore, a French kiss can be powerful foreplay and can induce high sexual arousal in partners.
What Does French Kissing Feel Like?
Your lips and tongue are highly sensitive because they are full of nerve endings. Therefore, when you french kiss someone, you will get the sensation of feeling their tongue touch your tongue, which can be an enjoyable (and arousing!) experience.
French kissing is an overall intimate and bonding experience between two lovers as it can increase the feelings they have for each other.
How To Make Perfect French Kiss?
Do you know what makes a French kiss from good to great?
It doesn’t matter whether you’re a first-time kisser or a makeout expert. We’re going to let you in on all the best French kissing tips, tongue techniques, and secrets to take your next kissing partner’s breath away.
1. Freshen your breath.
You never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone, whether the kiss is a French kiss or not. Because your mouth will be open in a French kiss, fresh breath is especially important. Practice good dental hygiene. Even If you know you are about to kiss someone or not, take a second to brush your teeth or at least rinse out your mouth with water.
Always have breath mints or mint-flavored gum with you if you think there is a chance you might kiss someone while you are out. If you want to be subtle, you can quickly suck on a breath mint or chew gum for a minute in the bathroom. So you don’t make it too obvious that you’re ready to kiss.
Avoid foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue, particularly garlic, coffee, onions, milk, and corn. If you’re on a dinner date before the big kiss, try to eat strategically.
2. Find the right moment.
A good kiss—especially a first kiss or first French kiss—is the culmination of building tension and growing intimacy.
Choose your moment right to make sure you and your partner are both in a mindset to really lose yourselves in the kiss.
You should have privacy and should both be feeling romantic instead of stressed or distracted, for one thing. When is the moment right? It depends on your individual situation, but here are a few signs to keep in mind:
- You have complete privacy. Whether you’re alone on your balcony or sitting on a secluded bench in a park, you’re not worried that someone will interrupt you.
- The other person keeps dropping hints, like locking eyes and looking at your lips, or standing or sitting progressively closer to you. Regardless of your partner’s gender, their body language should give you a clue about whether now is the right time to make your move.
- You’re ending a date that went really well. In the car or on the porch are both good semi-private locations for a goodnight kiss.
If you feel overwhelmingly compelled to kiss someone, don’t be too afraid to just go for it.
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3. Look your partner in the eyes and smile
Make eye contact.
Gaze deeply into the other person’s eyes. If you want to make your intentions extra clear, slowly move your gaze to their lips, then back up to the eyes. You can even make intense eye contact, break it for a few seconds, and then look back at the person.
This is a way of showing the person you want to kiss that you’re pleasantly overwhelmed at the sight of them. Girls can even look at a guy, look down, and then look up through their lashes to be extra flirtatious.
Smile.
If you’re really excited about the prospect of kissing the other person, show it!
A smile keeps the situation light and fun, while helping them feel safe and relaxed. Make sure your smile is soft and genuine, however, and not a forced, too-wide, or overly intense smile.
Just slowly and languidly ease your lips into a smile. Show your future kissing partner how happy you are to be in their company.
Continue to make eye contact as you do this, or break it for a few seconds before you return it. You can opt for a close-lipped smile instead of smiling while showing your teeth, which might come off more as friendly than alluring or romantic.
You have to look your partner directly in the eyes while giving them a little sexy smile. However, be careful not to stare at them for too long. Look at them just enough so you can let them know you want them and you find them attractive.
4. Move around
When you are French kissing, keep your head moving but not too much and not too fast. However, you don’t want to stay in one place too long either – the kiss will be more passionate when there is more head movement. In general, you should be moving slowly enough that the other person has time to say no, but not so slow that the moment loses its spark.
When you start to get the feeling that your kissing partner is ready for the next step, you shouldn’t dilly-dally. Move your body toward their body until your heads are just a few inches apart. That’s when you’ll have to start angling your head for the best kissing position.
Take it slow. The slow approach builds tension and anticipation. Move in at a pace that gives the other person a chance to consent (or not). When they see you coming in, they may move to meet you, so going slow will prevent you from accidentally bumping heads.
5. Lightly brush your lips over the other person’s.
Use feather-light pressure at first, so that your lips are just barely grazing over your partner’s. This builds more anticipation and excitement than diving straight into a full-on French kiss. This also signals to your partner that you may be wanting more without being too forward about it.
Keep your movements slow. A lot of quick, light kisses don’t have the same level of sexiness as a barely-restrained build in tension. Act like you have all the time in the world—the kiss will speed up soon enough.
6. Test the waters.
Once you’ve built a solid foundation for a French kiss with some tongueless kissing, you can give the other person some subtle hints that you’re ready to kick it up a notch. In general, if it’s your first time kissing the person, you should be a bit cautious before initiating a French kiss. Because this may come off as too much too soon.
But beyond that, here are some things to keep in mind as you test the waters to signal that you’re ready to kiss with your tongue:
- Open your mouth more widely.
- Offering unrestricted access invites the other person to make the first tentative tongue contact.
- Lock lips, so that the other person’s lower lip is between your two lips.
- Then, lightly sweep the tip of your tongue over the lower lip. Do one smooth, swift motion so that the contact lasts for less than a second. If they are interested, they’ll reciprocate.
Know when to pull back. If you’ve tried both of the above techniques and your partner hasn’t responded, simply leave it alone until next time and focus on regular kissing. Avoid making a big deal of it, or guilting them.
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7. Explore with your tongue.
If the other person seems interested, go ahead and start French kissing for real. Remember to keep your tongue in motion and your touches light.
First, just slowly slide your tongue into your partner’s mouth. You can either begin by placing it above or below your partner’s tongue, or even move it around the tongue a bit if you’re feeling bold. Just make sure your partner’s tongue is reciprocating your actions. So you’re not just kissing a limp tongue, or the romance will dissipate pretty quickly. Here are some things to keep in mind as you explore the French kiss:
- Stay playful.
- Tongues are loaded with nerve endings, and the mere act of touching your partner’s tongue with your own will be very pleasant.
- Don’t go too deep — jamming your tongue down the other person’s throat is a big turn-off.
Stay shallow and light at first. See how far your partner wants to go, and follow suit.
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8. Use your hands. Break the touch barrier…
If you’ve kissed the person on the lips before, then breaking the touch barrier may feel more natural for you, and you should make an effort to touch the person before you touch lips so both of you feel more at ease.
While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. Using your hands and touching your partner’s body (while keeping it respectful) can enhance the romantic feeling of the kiss and can make you and your kissing partner feel more connected.
Once you make contact with your partner’s body, you can move your hands around gently from time to time without being frantic about it. Here’s what you need to know about using your hands while you French kiss:
- As a general rule, start with your hands on your partner’s hips and then slowly move them around their back or up to the face and hair.
- Another turn-on for the first kiss is to gently caress the other person’s shoulder. It shows you are comfortable with them.
- Cradle your partner’s face with your hands on their cheeks and their neck.
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9. Take breaks
An important part of the kissing process is taking breaks. Just think of the kiss as a wave crashing on the sand, and then it slowly retreats. The break of the kiss is the retreating part of the wave.
Once you fall into a rhythm, you should be able to find a suitable pattern for breathing without interrupting the flow of your kisses. Here’s what you need to know:
- Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss.
- Don’t be afraid to take a break. If you do it right, it can still be an intimate and sexy moment. Pull back slightly so that your foreheads are still touching, make eye contact, and smile.
As you and your partner grow comfortable with the kiss, you can try breathing through your mouth a little: sharing breaths as well can be romantic (but not everybody likes it).
10. Communicate.
If you really like the way your partner kisses you, let them know.
If you don’t like something, also let your partner know that, but approach it delicately and compliment them at the same time on something they did that you liked. If your partner is being honest and open with you, try not to overreact or get hurt, or this may make your partner feel hesitant to communicate with you in the future.
Finally, remember that Even if the kiss goes all wrong, it can still be an intimate affair if you can both laugh about it together! The important thing is that you’re both honest about how you’re feeling and what you want to do to improve.
You should also communicate by telling your partner how attractive they look, and how much you like them. Make it clear how happy you are to be with the person you’re with and the French kissing will come all the more naturally.